Dare to Stumble.... if You Want to Succeed!

During my Ph D research, I conducted a study at one of the teacher training colleges in Kerala, India. One of the formidable challenges that confronted me there was removing learners' inhibitions to speak due to the fear of making mistakes.

Some of them broke down while others adopted a stance of stubbornness, whenever I gave them tasks where they had to perform.

The possibility of teaching in their native language, Malayalam, offered them a comfort - a reason to avoid enhancing their English proficiency.
I wasn’t ready to back down either. So, I decided to share my own struggles with English language learning.

I told them about my starting stages when laughter was directed at my earnest attempts. The limited resources and technological aids available at my disposal and how I persevered tirelessly. Gradually, I managed to forge a connection, earning their trust.

The most important thing I did was to refrain from correcting their mistakes as they bravely ventured into communicating in English.

Two months down the line, the transformation was nothing short of remarkable. I could see that their fear was slowly waning, and they were becoming better and more confident day by day. Mistakes were made, undoubtedly, but they were treated with a newfound indifference.

Yet, this journey is not unique to those learners alone. It echoes a common sentiment that reverberates through each of us—a fear of stumbling on the path to mastery, whether it be English or any other skill. The apprehension of what others might think can stifle our progress and confine our potential.

Embracing mistakes is extremely important; they are opportunities for growth. Like climbing a mountain, learning a language involves gradual progress with obstacles. Be courageous enough to face those obstacles without allowing them to hinder your spirit.

So, take this to heart: fear not the misstep, cherish the stumble, and celebrate the mistakes. Embrace them as companions on your journey to success. As I witnessed in that college in Kerala, those who dare to stumble are the ones who ultimately learn to soar.